Caring

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So I have always been told to care for someone in life. I have always thought that statement was really true. So Spring Break has come at last. I lately have been really busy auditioning for University's. Thats not what I am here to talk about though, although I got accepted and am really excited to go through the program and eager for school to be over still there is something on my mind. I have recently encountered some old good friends of mine one in particular, I won't name names. I have just discovered that caring for someone can make a difference in your life and in your friends lives. I have neer sat down with this person nor have I listened empathically to them. I always thought that it was not a big deal until i saw pain and sorrow in their eyes. I had sympathy also I was empathic for them as well. Someone to hold on too someone just to let them know you are their for them. Friends who watch out for each other. My Spring Break has been pretty busy being with loved ones. Caring for you friends can mean the world to them, at least that's what I was told. I have been hurt in my life and sometimes it comes around and kicks my butt. Lets face it scars take a while to heal.

The person I talked to today is so dear to me I would do anything. I have seen them multiple times and I have been just watching as I see pain go through them and myself. Is it jealousy? Is it hate? Or is it confusion? We never wil know unless we decide and figure it out for ourselves. Caring, One of my best friends talked to me for a good hour today saying positive things to me and then we talked for hours. I took this discussion to heart because some people like to look at the bad in people. I myself try not to look at the bad in someone. That is of course if they don't deserve it. I was told all my life how can you love someone if you can't love yourself. This is a very powerful statement in it's own words. You can't their is no way if you do not love yourself pain and sorrow will be brought upon the ones you love and the people who care and love you. Why would you belittle someone because they can't get a move right in a dance class or does not get a problem in math? Because people now a days want power and want to be feared, or lets say in this case noticed. Some people get hurt by this it does more internal damage than physical. I would rather sometimes have physical pain than emotional pain. You can make it all work out we have to think with logic and actually use our brains. I don't mean to stand on my soap box but caring for other people and not belittling them will get you no where in life quite frankly it makes you look like a completely ass hole. (I apologize for the language.) I believe that if you have the guts and heart to care for someone life and it's good graces will bless you from The Big Man Above! Once again take into heart don't hurt any body if you do it on accident figure it out and apologize. If you hurt someone purposely bad karma will come to you.